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Strong Enough to Break
I’m struggling to find adequate words to describe how much of a rollercoaster each day has been. I’ve been told that once treatment...

Alisha (Kara’s Sis)
Feb 12, 20253 min read


Brave Faces Through Hard Days
Starting treatment was nerve-wracking. We walked into it with brave faces, holding on to hope and prayers that the side effects would be...

Alisha (Kara’s Sis)
Feb 8, 20254 min read


Treating the Incurable
Ignorance is bliss. I used to take for granted how little I knew about cancer—about treatment options, drug approvals, survival rates. I...

Alisha (Kara’s Sis)
Feb 5, 20254 min read


You Can't Coach Heart
None of these blogs have been easy to write, but this one feels particularly difficult because I don’t think words could ever fully...

Alisha (Kara’s Sis)
Feb 4, 20253 min read


High Tides, Rough Waves
It started with a rough night. 3 a.m., Wednesday morning. Kara wakes up singing " TV6 Cares for You! " I tell her it’s too early to wake...

Alisha (Kara’s Sis)
Jan 31, 20253 min read


Happy Hellos and Some Gloomy Goodbyes
We made it. Our annual trip to Siesta Key felt impossible this year with everything going on—doctor visits, scheduling treatments, just...

Alisha (Kara’s Sis)
Jan 28, 20253 min read


I Was Wrong About Cancer T-Shirts
If I’m being completely honest, I’ve always despised cancer t-shirts. That’s not to disrespect the millions of people who have made...

Alisha (Kara’s Sis)
Jan 17, 20253 min read


A Blessing Beyond Measure
I’ve always looked at Kara with a sense of wonder. She has a light about her that’s hard to put into words, a presence that feels almost...

Alisha (Kara’s Sis)
Jan 16, 20254 min read


One Month In
I’ve been thinking a lot about hope and where it comes from. There’s this visual that keeps replaying in my mind as we’ve been hit with one

Alisha (Kara’s Sis)
Jan 14, 20254 min read


We Made it Through the Week!
Kara LOVES Fridays. And we have some positive news for a change. :)

Alisha (Kara’s Sis)
Jan 10, 20252 min read


Sharing the Unshareable - A Hard Update
This week, we’ve kept our circle small. Saying the words out loud makes everything feel all too real, like taking another punch to the gut.

Alisha (Kara’s Sis)
Jan 3, 20253 min read


A Love for the Game
A much needed distraction from the diagnosis, Kara cheers on her Hawkeyes!

Alisha (Kara’s Sis)
Dec 30, 20242 min read


Being where your feet are
I keep trying to train my brain to focus on the positives. Putting it to practice is another story.

Alisha (Kara’s Sis)
Dec 28, 20242 min read


Sweet Friends and New Plans
The big update for today: we’re postponing her double mastectomy. Kara will have a PET scan on Saturday, and we’ll meet with Dr. Aggarwal on

Alisha (Kara’s Sis)
Dec 23, 20241 min read


Heartbreak & Hope: The Start of Kara's Journey
On 12.13.24 our lives changed in a way that we never expected. Cancer has got to fall into the top three words you never want to hear, but y

Alisha (Kara’s Sis)
Dec 21, 20242 min read
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