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Calm Before the Storm
It’s been a while and I hardly know how to catch Team Kara up on everything that has unfolded. Maybe I’ll just start with the present....

Alisha (Kara’s Sis)
Sep 9, 20255 min read


Neverending Grief
Note: This space has been a home for sharing Kara’s journey but today I need to place another piece of my heart here. Grief does not...

Alisha (Kara’s Sis)
Sep 3, 20256 min read


The House She Built
Birthdays hit differently these days, just like everything else in our lives, I suppose. But Kara loves a good celebration, and she was...

Alisha (Kara’s Sis)
Aug 27, 20253 min read


Have you taken a breath yet?
It’s a common question after a festival. And a fair one with AC, which isn’t just a music fest - - - it’s a comedy fest, a film fest, a...

Alisha (Kara’s Sis)
Aug 21, 20255 min read


From Hard Days to the Best Seat in the House
Genuinely hard to put into words how meaningful the Indiana Fever game was. As much as I’ve been writing lately about all the special...

Alisha (Kara’s Sis)
Aug 10, 20256 min read


In the Glow of the Big Screen and the People I Love
My little broken heart mended with a few stitches last night watching Kara take in my latest work on the big screen! Leading up to the...

Alisha (Kara’s Sis)
Aug 8, 20257 min read


Red, White & I'm SO Blue.
Every holiday is a total mindfuck for me. They always have been. My hypervigilant brain won’t shut off. It cycles through the emotional...

Alisha (Kara’s Sis)
Jul 5, 20255 min read


The Gravity of Being Present
I’ve had a lot of people reach out lately, telling me they’re amazed by how I’m juggling everything life is throwing at me. Some say I’m...

Alisha (Kara’s Sis)
Jun 11, 20253 min read


A change in the tide: The PET scan results are in...
The burden we’ve been carrying has been so incredibly heavy. As the date got closer for Kara’s PET scan, I felt my chest tightening, my...

Alisha (Kara’s Sis)
May 23, 20253 min read


The Light Led Me Home
It’s my birthday. And I want to share how I found beacons of light (even in this year that has felt incredibly dark). Last night, as I...

Alisha (Kara’s Sis)
May 18, 20255 min read


I need to catch my breath.
That’s what Kara said after a short walk through the outlet mall in Aurora. My mind immediately spiraled. Has the cancer spread to her...

Alisha (Kara’s Sis)
May 4, 20254 min read


We did it.
I was a ball of anxiety the entire week and it feels extra sweet to share that Kara crushed her chemo treatment. She had no hesitation...

Alisha (Kara’s Sis)
Apr 20, 20254 min read


Love, Laundry, and the Will to Keep Going
If you really want to make Kara’s day, all you have to do is clean your house and do your laundry. I’m not kidding. Nothing makes her...

Alisha (Kara’s Sis)
Apr 13, 20254 min read


Holding Both: Budgets and Breakdowns
One minute I’m knee-deep in building a festival budget for a grant application, and the next I’m crying because Kara fell asleep in her...

Alisha (Kara’s Sis)
Apr 1, 20254 min read


Smile Through the Storms
Every morning I open my eyes and, without fail, the first thought hits me: Kara has cancer. There hasn’t been a morning since her...

Alisha (Kara’s Sis)
Mar 22, 20254 min read


And I will try to fix you...
I haven’t been able to find time to write an update the last few days. Kara’s care has been incredibly hands-on, and I’ve been squeezing...

Alisha (Kara’s Sis)
Mar 13, 20253 min read


Ambulance Rides, ER Visits, and a Hospital Hotel Check-In
It’s been a whirlwind, to say the least. The week started rough and just kept getting worse. I’ve dreaded writing this because I don’t...

Alisha (Kara’s Sis)
Mar 10, 20255 min read


A Ticket to Breaktown
"I can’t do this much longer," Kara said at 7:50 a.m. on Monday morning, after a brutal weekend of fatigue, restlessness, pain, and...

Alisha (Kara’s Sis)
Mar 4, 20253 min read


Chemo: Round 2
I’ve been a little quiet lately. Not just in my ability to publish a blog, but in real life too. When life gets hard, I tend to shift...

Alisha (Kara’s Sis)
Mar 2, 20255 min read


One Week Stronger
A week off from treatment somehow felt like it dragged on forever and flew by at the same time. The stay-at-home order didn’t seem to...

Alisha (Kara’s Sis)
Feb 20, 20253 min read
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