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The Gravity of Being Present
I’ve had a lot of people reach out lately, telling me they’re amazed by how I’m juggling everything life is throwing at me. Some say I’m...

Alisha (Kara’s Sis)
Jun 11, 20253 min read


A change in the tide: The PET scan results are in...
The burden we’ve been carrying has been so incredibly heavy. As the date got closer for Kara’s PET scan, I felt my chest tightening, my...

Alisha (Kara’s Sis)
May 23, 20253 min read


The Light Led Me Home
It’s my birthday. And I want to share how I found beacons of light (even in this year that has felt incredibly dark). Last night, as I...

Alisha (Kara’s Sis)
May 18, 20255 min read


I need to catch my breath.
That’s what Kara said after a short walk through the outlet mall in Aurora. My mind immediately spiraled. Has the cancer spread to her...

Alisha (Kara’s Sis)
May 4, 20254 min read


We did it.
I was a ball of anxiety the entire week and it feels extra sweet to share that Kara crushed her chemo treatment. She had no hesitation...

Alisha (Kara’s Sis)
Apr 20, 20254 min read


Love, Laundry, and the Will to Keep Going
If you really want to make Kara’s day, all you have to do is clean your house and do your laundry. I’m not kidding. Nothing makes her...

Alisha (Kara’s Sis)
Apr 13, 20254 min read


Holding Both: Budgets and Breakdowns
One minute I’m knee-deep in building a festival budget for a grant application, and the next I’m crying because Kara fell asleep in her...

Alisha (Kara’s Sis)
Apr 1, 20254 min read


Smile Through the Storms
Every morning I open my eyes and, without fail, the first thought hits me: Kara has cancer. There hasn’t been a morning since her...

Alisha (Kara’s Sis)
Mar 22, 20254 min read


And I will try to fix you...
I haven’t been able to find time to write an update the last few days. Kara’s care has been incredibly hands-on, and I’ve been squeezing...

Alisha (Kara’s Sis)
Mar 13, 20253 min read


Ambulance Rides, ER Visits, and a Hospital Hotel Check-In
It’s been a whirlwind, to say the least. The week started rough and just kept getting worse. I’ve dreaded writing this because I don’t...

Alisha (Kara’s Sis)
Mar 10, 20255 min read


A Ticket to Breaktown
"I can’t do this much longer," Kara said at 7:50 a.m. on Monday morning, after a brutal weekend of fatigue, restlessness, pain, and...

Alisha (Kara’s Sis)
Mar 4, 20253 min read


Chemo: Round 2
I’ve been a little quiet lately. Not just in my ability to publish a blog, but in real life too. When life gets hard, I tend to shift...

Alisha (Kara’s Sis)
Mar 2, 20255 min read


One Week Stronger
A week off from treatment somehow felt like it dragged on forever and flew by at the same time. The stay-at-home order didn’t seem to...

Alisha (Kara’s Sis)
Feb 20, 20253 min read


Strong Enough to Break
I’m struggling to find adequate words to describe how much of a rollercoaster each day has been. I’ve been told that once treatment...

Alisha (Kara’s Sis)
Feb 12, 20253 min read


Brave Faces Through Hard Days
Starting treatment was nerve-wracking. We walked into it with brave faces, holding on to hope and prayers that the side effects would be...

Alisha (Kara’s Sis)
Feb 8, 20254 min read


Treating the Incurable
Ignorance is bliss. I used to take for granted how little I knew about cancer—about treatment options, drug approvals, survival rates. I...

Alisha (Kara’s Sis)
Feb 5, 20254 min read


You Can't Coach Heart
None of these blogs have been easy to write, but this one feels particularly difficult because I don’t think words could ever fully...

Alisha (Kara’s Sis)
Feb 4, 20253 min read


High Tides, Rough Waves
It started with a rough night. 3 a.m., Wednesday morning. Kara wakes up singing " TV6 Cares for You! " I tell her it’s too early to wake...

Alisha (Kara’s Sis)
Jan 31, 20253 min read


Happy Hellos and Some Gloomy Goodbyes
We made it. Our annual trip to Siesta Key felt impossible this year with everything going on—doctor visits, scheduling treatments, just...

Alisha (Kara’s Sis)
Jan 28, 20253 min read


I Was Wrong About Cancer T-Shirts
If I’m being completely honest, I’ve always despised cancer t-shirts. That’s not to disrespect the millions of people who have made...

Alisha (Kara’s Sis)
Jan 17, 20253 min read
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